Dating after divorce for men
By the time we met, EJ was financially strapped, his relationship with his kids was in trouble, and he doubted he could trust a woman ever again.There was nothing EJ could do to change the situation he was in; he was responsible for paying alimony, child support and his ex-wife’s debt.he isn’t willing to change his schedule one bit to make room for her.
And you do not want to be a parent to a fifty-year old and ground him when he oversteps, do you? Most of us in the single parent club understand the pressures of dating when we have kids waiting at home and how we’ve got to steal the ticks of the clock from being WITH the kids to go out on dates- except this guy is REALLY, REALLY, WITH the kids. There is always a kid excuse for everything- and if you are lucky enough to get to see him, you might be in for a ‘let’s-do-Anna’s-Art-project’ date! Too bad then that you cannot really figure out why this guy is here- because his story for getting a divorce changes every time someone pops the question! Now, I haven’t really met this one but I’d like to believe the type exists.
Weekends aren’t lookin’any good either coz well, he is camping out. But the bitterness of this guy can make a vanilla ice-cream topped with hot chocolate fudge sour!
But good news, he has a two-hour window on the third Tuesday from now, if you can make it to his neighborhood! You can tell the type right off the bat when he will make a snide remark about your choice on the menu- coz anybody who eats pot roast is a wanton b*tch, right?
He recognized that by trying to always be the “good guy,” he let people take advantage of him.
He ignored the red flags in his relationships because he always wanted to see the best in people.