Rules of dating multiple guys
If it causes you unnecessary stress, or you’re using the relationships to avoid other issues, opt out.And, if you're meeting a lot of interesting people, "keeping your options open," and having a blast?
It got kind of difficult with all of the drama, though.”Cassie*, a 30-year-old designer living in Brooklyn, got out of her rotation only after one date asked her to be monogamous with him. “But, he always brought me on amazing experiences, and it’s hard not to fall for someone when each experience is so fun.”For some women, having a rotation with the hopes of ultimately meeting a long-term partner can also be unfulfilling.
I was fresh out of a relationship, breakup wounds still searing.
But, rather than stay single, I figured out what the hell I wanted from my next long-term partner, dove straight into dating, and found myself in the middle of a rotation — that is, seeing a multitude of men, all noncommittally.
“Rotations give you the opportunity to not close doors on people who may be great for you.
People who get involved too quickly shut out others because they don’t rotate dates.