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What about the rules of letting the man be the one to text you first? You can forget everything you’ve learned when you date a French guy, it’s a level playing field!

As well as having to be more decisive about where you want to go on a date, it’s pretty important that a woman does aide the man in doing some of the follow up work after the date.

So, if you fancy going to the cinema, tell him you want to go to the cinema.

If you like a bar or café in your quartier, tell him to meet you there for a drink.

If the sun is shining, tell him you’d love to take a walk along the Seine.

Once he gets to know you better though, make sure you’re not doing all the deciding work.

He will say it sooner than you think, since he probably already knows his true feelings for you after the first date.After summoning my friends to a crisis coffee meeting, where I had to tell them about what had just happened to me, my friends explained I had, in fact, told him that I liked him a lot – but as a friend.One of my friends even likened saying ‘Je t’aime bien’ to something you might say to a sandwich. In England, if you told someone you liked him or her a lot, you would have been declaring some pretty strong romantic feelings for that person and would most likely be holding out for a future relationship with them.It will be more satisfying for you when he dreams up a fabulous idea for a date because he knows you would just love it.What happened to waiting for the man to contact you after a first date?

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