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Hate to be the bearing of bad news, but let’s just say that that site isn’t known for attracting men who are terribly picky. Many of those guys are taking you out in the hopes of hooking up. That would explain a good portion of the rejection that you are experiencing.I highly doubt that the majority of men you’re meeting on OK Cupid are actually looking for a relationship. The other contributing factor is probably that you’re disappointing these men somehow.My suggestion to you, OP, as well as to all the other women in your age range and above is to branch out. As for the guys who struggle, all the whining and sad sackery has to stop. Many of you sound like the 98 pound weakling who just had sand kicked in his face at beach.If you want a certain type of woman, you need to up your game. You can say all you like how unfair it is that women don’t like nice stable guys but deep down you know that’s not true.Comment: Hi, I am wondering if what happens to me is “normal” in the dating world here in NYC. I meet an average of 3 guys per week, which some would consider lucky.
In December, a guy I went to high school with started messaging me on Facebook.
Congrats, you stay in shape or you’re pretty or you have a job. If you’re surrounded by people who bring more to the table, and at any given time you probably are, then you need to either up your game in some way and/or go where people want what you Article Roundup Awkward Bad Dates Book Break Ups Casual Dating Casual sex Cheating Commitment Date Like a Man Dating Dating & Finances Dating 2.0 Dating After Divorce Dating In a Big City Dating is Fun Dating Lies Dating Myths Dating Over 35 Dating Over 40 Dating Realities Dating Skills Dating The Crazy Douchey Guys First Date Etiquette First Date Sex First Impressions Happy & Healthy Hook Up Culture Latests Posts Meeting Men Meeting Women Moxie 101 NEW!
After being ghosted and dealing with canceled dates, I found myself crying over random dudes.
I chalked it up to another ghosting, but not without worrying that I did something wrong, like somehow coming off as too desperate or too available in my one-line text about rescheduling.
I wound up crying over yet another dating disappointment when the pain from the last ones was still so fresh.