Dating rituals in netherlands

It was the most unflattering nights out Ive had in a long time.I saw men looking at me but it was impossible to tell what they were thinking. AND yes- they are very good looking, which didn’t help matters.I didn’t know if they were looking at me because I looked bad or not up to their standard or bacause they were “interested”.I did not apporoach any because basically I didn’t have the confidence.Theyre was no signs, no flirting, no approaching me and asking would I like a drink, NOTHING.The person who wrote the stuff about Dutch men, should NOT generalise! But needless to say i really started falling for him and he told me he loved me. I had a boyfriend of 3 years that i was having alot of trouble with. This dutch guy will make a lucky lady happy one day. Even though he said he will always love me and no one else i want him happy. And the sex can be good for the 5 minutes you’re actually having it.

It was bizarre and I din’t really like it to be honest.

I would say they definitley look after themselves and have style. I’m in no hurry to visit agai, not the most friendly or welcoming people.

I don’t have a problem with this but I did find them bland/ boring/ no fun. This is how I felt at the time, but having read your blog, its good to know it wasn’t just me!!

In comparison to other men in Europe, Dutch guys have difficulties settling down.

They are in average way over 30 years old to buy a house or get married.

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