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Now I know to preserve it, so [men] can appreciate it more.

ESSENCE.com: So far the show has mentioned six or so things on your list. CHILLI: I love a silly man, can't be with a quiet guy, and he has to love the Lord.

He can't eat pork, or have more than two baby mamas. Last, but definitely not least, he must have a really huge p...package. Every Sunday night at EST, Chilli attempts to find him on her reality series "What Chilli Wants" on VH1.

The beautiful singer/songwriter Chilli seems to think so.

Even if you want it to be, it just doesn't work out that way." "But I'll always love him, forever, because he was my first adult love, a real love," she added. The "OMG" crooner filed for divorce in 2009; the couple have two sons together — Usher V, 5, and Naviyd, 4.

ESSENCE.com: Speaking of the Lord, do you think you may miss out on finding your man being so specific with your checklist? CHILLI: (Laughs) Aww man..helped to reform and reshape the list. CHILLI: We're not enemies, I'll leave it at that..bad blood. Still everyone continues to want you and Usher back together...

CHILLI: God knows the desires of our heart, and before I even had a list I prayed and asked God to show me what exactly it is that I need. ESSENCE.com: You've never dated anyone that doesn't meet your list's criteria? ESSENCE.com: Hmmm.did Usher measure up to the list? During that relationship, I found out the things I really needed, and without going into a lot of detail, I can check off a whole lot on my list. CHILLI: It surprises me that people still say that, I hear it at least four times a week. When you become bitter, you're giving all those negative experiences the power to take you into a funk.

Like, I want a guy who doesn't drink, but I need a guy who doesn't smoke.

In my wants area, I'll compromise, but not my needs.