Are online dating sites a waste of time
It made me SO uncomfortable that guys so much older than me, older than most of my siblings (all of which are 8 years plus older than me), were sending me messages telling me that I was “hot”.
I am getting terribly uncomfortable just thinking about it.
Once considered a realm inhabited only by the socially awkward, online dating is now just another tool in the toolbox, no matter whether you’re looking for a hook-up or your soulmate.....
To explore this topic, I pulled aside two individuals who I knew were hunting for a long-term relationship using online dating websites, and asked them about their experiences with the services.
Okay, it’s time to have an open and frank discussion about the battle of the sexes and the dating game.
It’s far too complex, scary and difficult for mere mortals – so let’s bridge the gap by asking both men and women what doesn’t work when it comes to online dating Dating has gone digital.
Also, some of the messages I got were from a few guys that ranged from early 40’s to late 40’s and I was maybe 19 at the time.
That was one of the main reasons I called it quits.
People will only waste your time if you let them, remember that, so don’t let them.
Here are some more tips: But remember, dating is a process and someone getting to know you isn’t wasting your time if they are actually getting to know you by dating you and making a conscious effort.
Don’t focus too much on the outcome, focus more on finding the right person who makes a good companion and the rest will fall into place where it’s supposed to.
Some people are master manipulators and experts at what they do so you can’t tell, but on the most part that’s not the case. Well, do they ever mention you and them in the context of “us” or is it all about them? Well, it starts with knowing what you’re looking for.
Do they ever mention going on a “real date” with you or is it “hanging out” or just talking on the phone or texting only? Do they have a history of meaningful relationships or not? Know yourself and be true to yourself and your intentions.